Have you used Meetup.com? It's a site where you can setup groups to meet other people "in person." There are groups for all kinds of things like kayaking, wine tasting, board games, and more.
I just set up a SWFL (that's Southwest Florida for those of you outside of the area) Microsoft Access Developers Group. This would be a great opportunity for those of us in the area to get together once a month or so, share ideas, have some training events, drink coffee (or beer!) and pick each others' brains.
So, if you're in the SW Florida area (or visit here from time to time) checkout our Meetup group here:
SWFL Microsoft Access Developers
Looking forward to seeing you online, and off. :)